We make it harder than it is. Got some hard times right now? This article says it well:
“Don’t imagine that you’re gonna tough this out and make it all by yourself,” says Dr. Jim Conway.
Do you have a person with whom you can share your innermost feelings about your loss? Take action to find someone. Often it is helpful to find someone who has experienced a loss similar to your own. Pray first that God will direct you.”
That is the key: Simply ask God for a friend. Two good results: you’ll find a friend and you’ll realize that God is real and really involved with you.